While I’m not an expert on Asperger’s Syndrome or other Autism Spectrum Disorders I do have some expertise in raising ONE Asperger son. The resources available today are vastly superior to the resources available when I was raising Max. I’ve found many of the following sites helpful and I hope you do, too.
Wrong Planet is a Forum for people with Asperger’s Syndrome and for the people who love them. It’s a tremendous resource. You can find the link on the links on the homepage or here.